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How to Meditate: Meditation 101 for Beginners
10 Science-Backed Benefits of Meditation
What is Meditation?
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Mindfulness 101: A Beginner's Guide
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Hey, welcome back to
your Daily Mindfulness.
Today, we're going to talk about stress.
Chances are, if you're a human being,
you have some experience with stress.
And while sometimes a little stress
can be useful, helping us to meet a
deadline or indicating when we need
to make a change in our life, too
much stress can compromise our health,
our productivity, and our wellbeing.
So let's start with what stress is.
One definition we have is that
stress is when our perceived demands
are greater than our perceived
resources to meet those demands.
Perceived demands greater
than perceived resources.
So what's the key word perceived.
Now, why is that the key word?
Well, often what we perceive to
be demanding is very different
than what is actually demanding.
So for instance, when you're
in the shower in the morning or
you're actually in the shower.
Okay.
Lost you there, Cory.
Yeah.
I have no doubt that your body
is in the shower, but is your
mind in the shower with you?
Mm, probably not.
Or it might be, but you might be bringing
other things in the shower with you.
Uh, your, your 401k
might be in the shower.
Uh, that person you don't want to see
later, they might be in the shower.
Your boss might be in the shower.
Your kids might be in the shower.
Your kids might literally
be in the shower.
So here you are standing in
the shower, but what happens?
Your perceived demands become: I got
to have that meeting with my boss.
I need to take care of the kids.
I need to plan out my retirement.
And then be angry, I can't
retire when I want to retire.
Right?
Who has the resources to be able to meet
all of those demands in any given moment?
No one, but your brain is not very good.
We're good at distinguishing
the difference between the
thoughts about those things and
the reality of those things.
However, when you drop your attention
into what is actually happening right
now, you're just rubbing soap on your
body, you're just shampooing your hair.
You're just standing in the shower.
Most of us have the resources to
be able to meet those demands.
Now you might hear this and go, alright.
Well, it's easy for me to
be calm in the shower, Cory.
I don't have an issue with that.
What about real life?
When things are fast paced and I
have a lot going on and I have a
hundred emails to take care of?
Well, let's look at it in those contexts.
We'll take the example
of the hundred emails.
So you sit down, you start
working on your first email.
But are you only doing one email or
are you also thinking about the 99
other emails you have to take care of,
how much you hate email, how much life
was better when you didn't have to
deal with email, et cetera, et cetera.
In those moments, your perceived
demands are not one email.
They actually become a hundred emails.
None of us are going to have the resources
to be able to meet those demands.
But if you really drop your attention
to what is actually happening
right now, you're just doing one
email and not just one email.
It's just one sentence.
And not just one sentence.
It's just one word.
That's not Pollyanna.
That's not putting on
rose colored glasses.
It's not positive thinking and it's
not denying the reality of your life.
If anything, it's dropping more
intimately into the reality of your life.
Often what we see when we bring this
quality of mindfulness into our moments
is that the catastrophe that the mind
is making this moment out to be is
a little less than it actually is.
So my encouragement to you today
is to see where are you creating
more stress for yourself by being
caught up in your perceived demands.
And when that happens, can you drop your
attention into what is actually here.
Oftentimes, I think you'll,
you'll see this moment as a little
less of a catastrophe than your
mind is making it out to be.
So thank you for your practice.
I'll talk to you soon and take care.
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