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How to Meditate: Meditation 101 for Beginners
10 Science-Backed Benefits of Meditation
What is Meditation?
How to Meditate: Meditation 101 for Beginners
10 Science-Backed Benefits of Meditation
What is Meditation?
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Mindfulness 101: A Beginner's Guide
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Hi, and welcome to your Daily Mindfulness.
Today, I'm going to talk about the link
between self-compassion and success.
So I think that on some level we
intuitively understand this link when
it comes to how we treat other people.
For instance, if we're trying to
help someone learn a new skill,
let's say, if you were teaching
a child to ride a bike, when they
make a mistake or get discouraged,
or when they just can't figure it
out, how do we typically respond?
Well, you'd probably offer
kind, supportive words, right?
Probably speaking in a
warm and soothing tone.
If they fall off the bike,
maybe you'd give them a hug
even to at least soothe them.
Then when they recover, chances are you'll
continue to be supportive and encouraging.
You know, really telling them to give
it another go or if they're really
exhausted and really disheartened,
really fed up, maybe you'd suggest
they just take a rest and reassure
them that they can try again tomorrow.
And they will eventually be able to
ride that bike with a little bit more
patience, little bit more practice,
a little bit more persistence.
Now, take a moment to reflect on how
you treat yourself when you make a
mistake, fail or experience a setback.
If you're like most people, you
probably are a lot tougher on yourself.
You know, that inner critic often pops up.
You know, oh, I'm so stupid.
I never get anything right.
Or we start to ruminate about
all our flaws and shortcomings.
Perhaps, we start really having very
deep, doubting beliefs or thoughts.
You know, I'm not smart enough to do this.
I'll never get this.
Now can you imagine if you were saying
this to someone who just fell off the
bike, like you're so stupid, I just don't
think you're a bike riding kind of person.
That's a pretty tough environment
to get back on the bike.
Right?
Well, of course, when we speak to
ourselves like that in a harsh and
critical way, it definitely makes it
harder for us to learn from our mistakes
and to stay motivated to try again,
and have the confidence that if we just
keep at it, we will achieve our goals.
So with this in mind, it should come as
no surprise that there's a substantial
body of research that shows that the skill
of self-compassion is closely correlated
to three key skills that lead to success
- resilience, the ability to recognize and
learn from our mistakes, and the ability
to keep motivating ourselves to succeed.
So how can we use self-compassion
to help us learn, grow and be more
effective on our path through life.
Basically, you want to learn to treat
yourself with the same kindness and
encouragement and support that you
would give to a friend, shifting the
inner critic to become more like an
inner coach or a supportive friend.
Now, of course,
self-compassion is a skill.
This does take practice.
But it's really worth the effort.
So instead of being hard on yourself,
when you fail fall, or have a
setback, try to meet each one of
those moments with self-compassion.
And when you do that, you'll be able
to dust yourself off, pick yourself
up again, and try again more quickly.
You'll also be making gains in
inner strength, resilience, and
wisdom every step of the way.
So as always, thank you for your
practice and your presence here with us.
And let's settle in now
for today's meditation.
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