Radically Change the Way You Experience Fear

Understand the origins of your fear to reduce it.

Millenia ago, our neanderthal ancestors’ brains developed to focus on fear as a survival instinct. Fear helped us stay vigilant, just in case that noise in the bush was a hungry lion getting ready to pounce on us.

The sensation of fear kept us alert to the dangers of our surroundings, so that we could do everything in our power to stay alive.

Understanding the reason your brain developed this fear response is one of the keys to radically changing the way you experience fear today.

Fear is a biological response aimed at keeping us and our loved ones safe.

Even though we’re no longer living in the bushes with wild animals lurking around the corner, that fear instinct that wants to find safety and protection from danger is still very active in our brains.

So what do we do?

** Keep in mind, maybe you label fear with other words like: Worry. Anxiety. Concern. Panic. Nervousness.

Say “thank you” to fear.

This may feel counterintuitive, especially if it's causing you distress, but so much can shift when you remember that fear is trying to help you. And unless you acknowledge and appreciate the fear, it will continue to build beneath the surface.

Our co-host, Cory Muscara, encourages us to think of fear as our built-in guard dog.

A guard dog is trained to bark if it senses danger. Although the dog's barking may be loud, abrasive, and frustrating, it's not trying to cause you suffering; it's trying to protect you.

And the guard dog is waiting for you to acknowledge the threat that it sees so that it knows you're aware of the danger and taking steps to create safety.

The more you ignore the guard dog's barking, the louder it gets. And since in this analogy, the guard dog represents fear, that means: